Dating three months holiday gift advice
" Introducing a new guy to anyone in your family automatically ups the ante, especially during the holiday season.
We went out very casually, on and off, with sometimes several weeks between dates for several months, but since December 1 we've decided to really give it a go at dating, and it couldn't be going better.
Plus, a bunch of people standing around talking shop while getting drunk and doing karaoke is no outsider's idea of fun. Think twice about casually inviting him to any family holiday party.
Getting the perfect gift might seem impossible, but a little thoughtfulness goes a long way."I’d suggest cooking a nice candlelit meal at home.You could suggest playing a ‘get to know you’ game or share your favorite music.And not just because the pumpkin butter I've been having on my morning toast is arousing Thanksgiving reveries, a la Proust's madeleine. Cup-of-Tea and I have already started discussing the holidays.I have been wondering what I want in terms of participation: If we're still together in December, will I be happier if he hangs out with my family on December 25 — or will it be less stressful for both of us if we simply agree to do the holidays apart?